Thursday, July 26, 2012

Obituaries

I seem to have come across a lot of obituaries lately.  They make you think.

I read one where the man inspired people.  All the comments that people left talked about how he influenced, changed, and uplifted other people.  He died when he was 30.  I remember interacting with him when I was a 7th grader.  He was exactly as they had described him.  I hope my obituary can be true to my life.

One lady's obituary said she "died unexpectedly on a family outing."  I imagined that happening on our next family outing.  Heaven forbid!  It didn't say how she died though, and left me curious.  I hope that my obituary can satisfy a random passerby's curiosity.

I read one about a lady who was very old when she finally passed to the other side.  She was quoted as saying "If God calls me to him, it means I have fulfilled my mission on earth!"  ("Если Господь призовет меня к себя, значит я выполнила свою миссию на земле!" excuse the poor translation)  I knew her personally, and I happen to know that she was in inconceivable amounts of pain here on earth, and I wouldn't blame her for wanting to die.  But I also happen to know that she was constantly trying to "fulfill her mission" here on earth, and do everything the Lord expected of her.  I hope that my obituary reflects that I have fulfilled "my mission on earth."  (But only if I actually do ever reach that point.)


I also want my obituary to be funny, so probably I'm going to need Tayhoo Kid to write it for me.


May my obituary not need to be written any time soon.






Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Two of my recent, best decisions ever:
1) Marrying Mikey, my BFF (emphasis on the last F)
2) Having videography at our wedding.

Thursday, June 28, 2012

Just being kids at Disney
     I looked over at my husband with tears in my eyes as the doctor started explaining to me what "differential diagnosis" means.  I couldn't really understand what he was saying, nor did I want to listen to what he had to say.  All I knew is he was sending us to the emergency room.
     I told my husband of less than a month that it was time to call my Mom.  I explained to her that we were at an urgent care clinic and on our way to the emergency room.  I didn't even try to mask that I was crying.  I told her of my possible diagnosis and then proceeded to tell her why I was actually crying: I wasn't going to be able to go to Disneyland with my friends.  I explained to her that my husband and four friends had been waiting for over 2 hours with me instead of using pre-purchased tickets to Disneyland, and now I was condemned to waiting four plus hours in the ER, which would mean, based on their resiliency thus far, that so were they.  My wise mother then said, "We're not here to go to Disneyland.  We're here to take care of each other.  That's what life is all about."  Then she added sternly, "Let Mikey and your friends take care of you."
     That was my favorite quote of the weekend.  "We're not here to go to Disneyland.  We're here to take care of each other."  So wise.  So true.
     On an unrelated note, my second favorite quote of the weekend was a question posed to my husband by the male nurse, probably in his twenties: "So is this your daughter?"
     Yes, that question was asked in reference to me.
     And now for the good news.  After an ultrasound, an IV, 4 prescriptions, and a good nights sleep, I made it to Disneyland (with a kidney and urinary tract infection) for an open to close, running ride to ride, acting like 6 married children, memorable trip.
Thanks for the good advice, Mom.
Thanks for taking good care of me, 4 friends.
And thanks for sticking with me through it all, Mikey.

Monday, June 25, 2012

This is for Moms of Olympic athletes.  What they didn't say is that the Moms are the ultimate Olympic champions.  My Mom is definitely one of them.

Monday, April 16, 2012

Monday, April 2, 2012

Tuesday, March 6, 2012

25 cents and back to normal

I'm glad that I finally figured out what to do to get myself back into the pop-culture swing of things.  Something that has been going on this long has got to be good, right?
Featuring (this is only a few of them):
The One That Got Away
Marry The Night
Paradise
Someone Like You
Lullaby
Red Solo Cup

What I need to know is where's my Justin Beeebs at?